Sorry

Heey everyone,

So i'm really sorry i didn't wrote, but there were happened some things.
Anyway i have a few important things to say:

1. I have a new blog called: http://beingainvisiblegirl.blogspot.nl/

And the reason that i didn't wrote was because i was busy recording with a friend on youtube, here's the link, so feel free to watch :)
Cover of me and a friend :)

XX

Vacation without friends (17-6-2013)

Heey everyone

I'm sooo extremely sorry, i didn't wrote a whole week, i know, well i can explain:
My laptop was doing weird, my account didn't worked, and i was really tired.
SOO I'M SORRY! Please forgive me, I really going to try to write more, but it's going to be hard.
But to make it (w)Right (you got it? i'm writing your right whahaha okay sorry :$)
Because it's almost vacation i'm going to write about a vacation without your friends. And give you some tips.

Vacation without friends:
So it's the last day of school, the bell rings and you may go home and relax a few weeks.
But all your friends are going away, what to do?? Well here are some tips:
1. Write down other activities you can do without friends
2. Go shop with you parents, brother, sister what ever.
3. Make a blog :)
4. Read a good book
And if that doesn't work then: Go walk and refresh your brain, or go to the beach, but alone so you can think about next (school)year, or next season.
You can also watch your favorite movies, or reality show, just think of something.
And if all this doesn't work: Go and post some things on social media:)

I hope you will survive your vacation without your friends.

-XXX-
Tamar

Lose weight (11-6-2013)

Heey everyone

Today it's time to write about losing weight, i have a lot of experience, cause i'm also pretty fat.
And i know how bad it is when people are yelling at you: HEEY YOU FAT ONE!!
It's mean and not necessary.

Lose weight:
Losing weight is not easy, it's insane hard.
So if you're thinking about losing weight here a few tips:
1. SMILE!! Keep smiling (a golden tip)
2. Only do it when you really want it
3. Try to buy more fruit 
4. Keep faith and believe in yourself.
Good luck with this, it's hard i know but the most important tip:
Don't listen to people that are criticizing!!!

-XXX-
Tamar 

Truth and Lies (10-6-2013)

Heey everyone

SORRY SORRY SORRY! I didn't wrote this weekend, cause i was with a friend, and i didn't had my stuff so sorry like a thousand times.
I really want to ask you something: What do you think if i make my blog a video- blog? Is that cool?
Please e-mail me with ideas, and a yes or a no.
So now back to writing, i'm going to write about Truth and lies.

Truth and Lies:
We all want to know the truth, but we are also scared of the things that we get to know.
But if you find out the truth after a lie, than it also hurts, AWWW Why is this world so insane hard?

Everyone tells a lie sometimes, but we are humans, and it's normal, we all make mistakes.
But to many lies can make your life miserable, so know what you do, that's my only advice for today, i hope you liked it.

-XXX-
Tamar

Just listen to yourself (6-6-2013)

Heey everyone

So for today i'm writing about the pressure you can have if you're in a group and they want you to do something but you don't wanna, than you have to listen to yourself so have fun reading this!

Just listen to yourself:

So i begin with a question and be honest: Did you ever did something that you didn't want to do, but you were pushed by a group?
Well it happened with me, many times, and i'm not proud.
Decisions are also decisions, i hear you thinking: What does she mean?
Well this: If you make a decision know that there's always another coming up, so if you said A than you have to say B, 'cause you can't go back, so be careful, and also in a group if you think that they are going to far, and they want you into their problems: STOP! And say no, also it's hard, try it, and you will be proud at yourself, I promise!! 


-XXX-
Tamar

Success (5-6-2013)

Heey everyone

So for today i thought it would be nice to write about success, but before i do that:
Please help me to find more inspiration, 'cause all my themes are gone, so please drop a reaction with an item you want help about.

Success:

You will only have success if you follow your dreams.
Maybe you have to give up really much things, and you have to leave your family, but sometimes you have to choose for yourself.
And in this time it's hard to get success 'cause there are so many problems in this world.
So it's hard to reach it and to come out for your opinion, but try it, and you'll see that you will success.

-XXX-
Tamar

Girls..... (4-6-2013)

Heey everyone

Yesterday i promised to write about girls for the boys.
And a promise is a promise, and i don't want to break that.

Girls:

This is a item for boys, if you want to ask a girl on a date, or you just want to talk to her, watch these tips.

1. Girls are very sensitive, and need a boy that's honest, so be yourself

2. Girls like sensitive guys, and like it when boys express their feelings in front of them/her

3. You have to handle girls with care

4. The most girls like it when you begin a conversation

5. If you have a girl friend, then be carefull with her, and try to please her on the right way.

And here are some tips that can help you to ask a girl out.

1. Talk to her

2. Hug her, also if it seems wrong

3. If she says no, don't give up

So i hope i helped the guys a little, and please if you like my blog, send the link to everyone you know, friends, family, enemies, haters, lovers, just everyone ;)

THANK YOU!!!

-XXX-

Tamar 

Guys.... (3-6-2013

Heey eveyone.

So for today i thought i'm going to write about guys, 'cause yeah, we (girls) all have problems with boys, but don't worry guys, tomorrow i will write about girls.

Guys...:

I think that this image is totally right.

It's also a little mean, i know, but here are some golden tips for girls.

1. Guys can be funny, but make sure you stop them when they are going to far.

2. The most guys really like to talk about it (i hope you know what i mean), but girls stop them ammidiatly when they're talking about it

3. Understand them when they are playong video games, cause guys need some boy-time

4. Don't be jealous, if he really loves you then you know it's okay

5. Everyone can be friends so maybe your best friend is a guy well have fun, it's fun!

And for the guys, i hope these tips were okay for girls, tomorrow i write for all the guys that have girl-issues.

Good luck!!!

-XXX-

Tamar

P.s. Don't forget to drop your reaction ;)

Awkward moments (2-6-2013)

Heey everyone,

First: I'm really sorry that i didn't wrote yesterday, i was really busy, so i want to say sorry.
But i'm going on, with today's item: Awkard moments.....

Awkward moments:

This image is so true, everyone has a accident sometimes.

Maybe your best friend has it always in public, and you have it when you're with friends.

Don't be imbearest, it's okay, i swear, all the people who laughing at you cause you farted or you wanted to sit but you were sitting next to your chair, they all have some moments.

So stand up, with your head held high, and keep moving on ;)

-XXX-

Tamar

Saying sorry in all sort of ways (31-5-2013)

Heey everyone

Today i'm going to write about how you have to say sorry in all sort of ways.

Extreme ways and less extreme.

Saying sorry:

You can say sorry in all sort of ways, here are some simple and normal ways to say sorry:

1. Talk to that peron
2. Send him/her a message
3. Write a note
4. Tell you side of the story

Extreme ways:

1. Giving presents (flowers, chocolate etc)
2. Send him/her a big card

But remember, in every way it's possible to say sorry, but be carefull with the feelings of someone else.

Good luck with saying sorry ;)

-XXX-

Tamar

Money (30-5-2013)

Heey everyone

Today it's time to write about money, everyone has/had problems with money, and i think the most girls have problems with saving money (i'm one of those girls)

So let's see

Money:

Money is hard to understand. Rich people are not holy or something.

If you are someone that doesn't have that much money than watch these tips.

1. Smile

2. Don't be jealous, cause you will have more friends than they have money.

3. Look at yourself

4. Be proud

5. Don't stress out.

And here are some tips for people that are rich.

1. Don't judge people that don't have that much money

2. Enjoy it, but please don't brag about it.

3. Give help to people

4. Smile

5. Also you have to be proud.

Money can't buy us happiness, but it can buy us clothes, but clothes don't make you holy.

If you have money be happy, and thankfull, if you don't have money, try to save it.

-XXX-

Tamar 

  

Family (29-5-2013)

Heey everyone

Today i'm going to write about family, how important it is, and tips to survive your older brothers/sisters

Family:

Family is really important, you need them, you can't live without them.

Of course sometimes you think: ,,I hate my mom.'' Or: ,,My father is driving me crazy.''

But you will always realising that you need them, and that your family is wonderful.

Nobody will have it always great at home, but if you're like: I really want to kill my brother/sister/mom/dad, then remember that irritation from those people you love the most, that you always know that it's okay, 'cause you love them.

I also know that you all love your brothers/ sisters, even though you always want to slap them (i know it, cause i have 3 brother, and they all living home ), deep deep in your heart you love them, and you know that.

-XXX-

Tamar

Missing someone (28-5-2013)

Heey everyone

Today i'm going to write about how you have to go on with your life while you're missing someone.

Missing someone:

Sometimes you want to bring the person back to you when you're missing someone.

It's possible that you miss someone that's dead, or someone that you haven't seen for a while.

And then you want to hug someone else, or you just want to cry.

It's hard to miss someone, but you have to move on, even though it's hard.

The hardest parts in life are when you're missing someone, and you know that you will never see him/her back. But know that there's always another shoulder were you can cry on.

You see pictures from a few years ago, and you and that person were happy, and nobody knew that you two would never see each other again, espacially yourselfs.

The only thing that you can do on a moment like that is crying, and life keeps going, although it's hard to believe.

Just ask someone for a hug, or a talk, 'cause everybody needs someone.

-XXX-

Tamar

Stress (27-5-2013)

Heey everyone

So today i'm going to write about stress, but first a memory: Please e-mail me, and drop a reaction, you don't have to be afraid.

Now back to the subject, STRESS.

Stress:

Stress is something that's not fun, but it's also pretty handy: It's a sort alarm that warns you that you have to take a few steps back.

But I know, still stress is annoying.

And we all had/have stress.

Stress can make us grumpy and also it can make you tired, and you can get head ache, so if you have stress on this level, than take gas back, 'cause you're only going to have problems with it, and in the worst cases you will have also really bad sleep.

So please look again at the image and try (It really helps!!!)

I hope you had enough information for today.

And please ask your questions.

-XXX-

Tamar

Gay or not? (26-5-2013)

Heey everyone

Today i'm going to write about sexuality.

For me it's really hard to write about this, 'cause with a item like this you need to be carefull, but please know, that if you felt angery or saddness after reading this, than remember that i didn't mean it in the way that you take this. So please enjoy and i hope you'll like this,

Gay or not? 

Like the image already said: Love knows no limits, so if you are doubting about your sexuality, don't be afraid.

There are people in this world, and they saying that being gay is not okay, but it is.

To be honest i have really much respect for people that are gay, cause they dare to express themselves.

Of course, enough people are thinking and saying something about this, but you don't have to listen to those, you are yourself.

And i know it's hard to ignore the mean comments and all the mean words they are saying to you.

But please be strong, you are strong, and gay is okay!!!

Listen to your heart.

And remember that being gay is not a disease, it's not weird, it's totally normal, and if people don't like you cause your gay, then they don't deserve you.

So please if you are doubting about it, talk about it, with really really good friends, or family.

And if you already know that your gay: Be proud!

And for everyone that's hetero: Don't look down on people that are gay, cause there's nothing wrong with them!!!

-XXX-

Tamar

Art (25-5-2013)

Heey everyone

Today i'm going to write about art, in all different ways, i hope you'll like this, and that you will have something ad this.

Art:

Art is something amazing, it can truly change your life, not only paintings, but also dance, or music (check my last message ;) ), but also the human soul.

Everyone has talent (Check the message about talent) and every talent is art.

And like the image already said: The ''earth'' without ''art'' is just ''eh.''

Maybe you are really good in talking and listening to people, and maybe your best friend is really good in making jokes to chear someone up.

But everything that you do, maybe you make people cry with your art- style, or you make people laugh, or you are giving people confidence. But everything seriously everything is art.

And all of your beautiful smiles, is the best art ;)

Remember that please!!

-XXX-

Tamar

Music (24-5-2013)

Heey everyone

Today is the item: Music, i hope you like it.

And for i begin i was thinking about giving my instagram and twitter so here it is:

Twitter: @Littlemissboef

Instagram: heyhoitamar

Well now i'm seriously going to write :)

Music:

Music is a thing that can change your whole mood.

Maybe a sad song, or a happy song, or a angry song, but the most people singing there own feelings.

And if you are not a singer or you just don't like it to sing than you can also write just write, maybe a poem, and that could also be a song already.

But if you are a singer, than sing your heart out, and forget the world, when your alone, than sing, cause singing is a really good thing to express your feelings, and not only singing also writing lyris, or writing chords.

Conclusion: Music is a really good way to express your feelings, and a really good way to destract yourself from something.

I hope you liked it.

-XXX-

Tamar

(Hurt) feelings (23-5-2013)

Heey everyone

Today i'm going to write about feelings, and then the most about hurt feelings.

I hope you will like this.

(Hurt) feelings:

Happiness: This is the key off life, if you don't understand this than take a class with the theme: HOW TO BE HAPPY? Of course, everyone has their ups and downs, but try to be happy, and try to have fun in your life, cause if haven't laugh a day then you didn't lived for 1 day.

Mad: Everyone is mad sometimes, but don't try to respond this on your friends, (if they didn't do anything). And remember after a few hours the madness is gone, i assure it!

Hurted (sad): This is maybe more annoying than madness, cause you only feel the pain, nobody knows how you feel, and nobody can push you to feel better, and your closes friends certainly not, 'cause if they are really your friends then they understand you.

I hope you know more about the 3 most 'popular' feelings.

And everyone, don't be afraid to e-mail me, or post a reaction, and also about new idea's!

Thank you!

-XXX-
Tamar

Make it yours (22-5-2013)

Heey everyone

Today is the item: make it yours, what do i mean with that? Hmm, well read today's story and you will find out.

Make it yours:

What does she mean with make it yours?

Well you can make everything yours, clothes, jewelery, accessoires, everything.

But not only about the outside also from the inside, you only have to believe it.

Imagine that you would were the same thing as a celebrity, and you think it looked better on him/her. Than believe that you are pretty and shine, and show to the world your confidence also it's hard, but show that you believe in yourself, cause then you already got respect.

So try to make everything yours (even it's rough).

Good luck with making everything yours.

-XXX- Tamar

Talent (21-5-2013)

Heey everyone

Today i'm going to write about talent. And how to discover them.

Talent:

Talent is something amazing, and everyone has talent.

Some people already know what their talents are, and some people need to discover their talent.

Everyone has there own gift, and they need to share that with the rest of the world.

Maybe you're a really good singer or a amazing dancer or you are great in teaching things.

But remember that you all have a talent, but take the time to discover yours.

And don't make abuse of your talent, cause that is a much appearance problem.

I know sometimes it's hard to just listen to your own voice, but if you know that it's not good than listen to your heart.

So please promise yourself that you are going to discover your talent and that you use your talent in the good ways :)

Give yourself a chance.

Tamar 

Rumours (20-5-2013)

Heey everyone 

First some information: If you can't see my e-mail here it is: tamar.floor@gmail.com

Don't be afraid to e-mail me, or if you want to ask something that is for more people than drop it under the reactions. ;)

And today i'm writing about Rumours.

Rumours:

Rumours are not fun, it may seen funny 'cause it's going about someone you hate, but it is not  fun!

If you didn't saw it with your eyes than don't spread things about others.

But also if you saw something and you know that it has to stay a secret than still you don't spread that!

You can get so much problems by spreading a rumour, i know that it is not fun.

But also if there is a rumour about you, it's so mean.

Rumours are things that said by people who are jealous on the person where the rumour is going about.

It is al about jealousy.

And please promise me and yourself you are not that stupid to spread a rumour.

Cause you will never learn about that, it is only stupid and not cool!

I hope you have it clear now.

And that you know that you'll never spread a rumour about someone!!!

-XXX- 

Tamar

Friendship (19-5-2013)

Heey everyone

So today i'm going to write about friendship (you already could see that cause yeah, it is standing up here, well just forget it, i'm going to write about Friendship).

A really hard subject.

Friendship:

First a little pic:

Good things about friendship:

Friendship is not a thing it is a understanding, and if you don't understand, than you have to go on a friendship class or something, cause you can't live without friends.

Friends are persons where you can share you're deepest secrets, and where you can be yourself.

And friends are people that accept you, just the way you are.

If i am with friends i always make insane much pics, cause you only will have regret of the pics you didn't make.

So make pics, of everytime you are arrange with each other, cause if you don't make pics you will have regret.

But of course every good thing has there own bad things.

Bad things about friendship:

If you having a quarrel with one of your best friends than it can be that you feeling lonely, and you are sorry about the things you've said.

And maybe you are a little afraid that they tell everyone you're secret, or that they telling everyone bad things about you.

But if you have quarrel than talk, that's the only way to keep up a friendschi[ ;)!

I hope that i am a friend for everyone, and if you have problems or you are insecure about something, than don't be afraid, post a reaction, or if it is to personal than e-mail me, i really like that.

Hopefully also a friend of you ;)

-XXX-

Tamar

College/ High school (18-5-2013)

Heey everyone

Today i'm writing earlier, because tonight i don't have time.

I'm going to write about: College/ High school, and how you have it to make yourself comfortable (in school).

College/ High school:

On every school you will ever come you'll see that everywhere are groups:

The popular kids, the ''nerds'', the real friends, the serious, and the outsiders.

But you can't give people a place, okay, cool everyone in school knows you, so what?

You have to look stupid so more people will like you. NO Please don't you see that you are ruining you're own future, do you think that it's cool? Well keep dreaming.

And popular kids are having really fast a judgement about someone else, so if they see her they think: NERD! And they see him: HAHAH UGLY!!

No everyone is okey, and she is not a nerd, she wants to have a stable future, and she is going to have that, 'cause she is smart.

So don't judge anyone, cause you will never reach something with that.

Here's a question: If you are popular kid in your school, are you brining others down? And be honest to yourself, cause, if you know that you do that, than stop it, and if you are also ruining you're future it is not cool so please help yourself.

And how do you have to make yourself comfortable in school: BE YOURSELF And be proud, and show your self respect!

Cause then you mandatory respect!

I hope i helped you a little bit :)

Much of Love! And good luck in school!!

Tamar 

Beauty (17-5-2013)

Heey Everyone 

Today it's time to write about BEAUTY!!!

Hope you like this piece:

Beauty:

Beauty is hard to understand, nobody will ever know what real beauty is.

The most people saying: Beauty is from the inside, and i agree, but how many of those people are serious? Cause i think that really much people are just saying that to give others a better feeling.

And that is not mean it is really nice, but on the other side not, cause you are lying and you don't dare to be honest.

But i am going to tell you about my opinion. 

Some people are really handsome, and the others not really.

But who cares? You are yourself, and that is the most important thing, i think that is a lesson that you have to teach everyone every single time.

I seriously don't understand beauty, what is true beauty?

My opinion: True beauty is that you are honest to the world, friends, family but the most important one: yourself, you have to be proud on yourself, and show the world your qualities, cause then you will reach something.

And beauty is not about: OMG you look so great. Or: Did you saw here? She is beautiful.

Of course you may say that about others, but if you know that you are a beauty than don't bring others down, just help them, and not to get more beautiful but helping with conciousness (i don't know if this is correct English :$) 

So remember this peeps: You are a gift to the world, you are born with a reason, and grown- up with a goal, keep your head up, look in the mirror and say/sing: I AM BEAUTIFUL!!!

Xxxx- Tamar

Dreams

Heey everyone!

It is time for my favourite part of the day: WRITING!!!

Today i'm going to write about the item: Dreams.

But first.... I have a little image, about dreams, watch it please!

DREAMS:

Dreaming, it is wonderful, but why do we close are eyes than? 

Everyone is dreaming, not about the same, but about our own goals, and we all want to reach are goals.

So stop dreaming and live your dreams!

But don't stop with being yourself, if you lose yourself, than you will never going to make it in this world.

Dreams are things, no not things but miracles, it is a miracle that we all live.

There is just one thing we can't forget: stay awake!

I hear you thinking: WHAT THE .... does she want to say?

Well, you can dream with your eyes wide open, it's a thing that i also do everyday.

My dreams are: Going to college in London and study in theater, cause i really want to go to a theateracademy, and my other dream is that my blog is going to be a real succes.

I said: Why do we close are eyes when we dream? Well that is because we all miss the best things in life, but why do we miss all the beautiful things? It is just that you can dream the whole day long (It is not really smart cause i think you all have school, a job or something else :P) But if you have some free time than do this:

1. Go sit somewhere where it is really chill and quiet.

2. Think about yourself, about your dreams.

3. Write them down

4. And write about how you want to reach that.

5. LIVE YOUR DREAMS!!!

Today's message was maybe a little vague, but try to understand what i mean, i know i'm just a kid, but i have also my word ready for the world, and for everyone who read this.

So thanks that you are reading my blog you make me so happy :) And thanks to you i can reach maybe one of my dreams (cause that would be so cool!!!)

SO thank you so much!

XOXOXO- BYEBYE

Tamar

Real message (15-5-2013)

Heey everyone!

This is my first message with real help :) YAAAY!

This time it is going about LOVE:

Love:

Love is old, love is new,

Love is all, love is you

By the beatles

Love is something complicated, i am really honest now, i never had a boyfriend.

I bet really much of you didn't had this, a boy or girl friend.

You don't have to shame or something, you just didn't met the right person.

That's totally okay, nobody is saying: YOU HAVE TO!

Or maybe you already met the person, but that love wasn't/ isn't mutual.

That is not fun i know,  (i hope that a lot of teenagers are reading this, i didn't meant this rude for the grown-ups) but you are young, enjoy life YOLO!

Just enjoy before you are beginning.

It is natural that you never had a boy/girlfriend, that doesn't mean you're ugly it just mean that you have to be patient.

Just wait.

I hope i helped you a little bit.

I'll write you tomorrow y'all! 

Bye much of love and a big kis (full of love :P) 

Tamar 

Introduction 15-5-2013

Heey everyone.

I am Tamar, and i started (again) a new blog, i have 2 other blogs, but i lost the control over those blogs ;(

So i am going to start again, with a whole new fresh start.

The reason for this blog:

I want to be there for people all over the world, everyone has there insecurities. 

So post your insecurities and let me help you, or let me give you advice or tips.

I am a dutch girl so my English is not without a mistake, so forgive me please :)

Social media:

I do have twitter, but that is a private channel, and i also have facebook, but that is all private.

I'm working on a twitter and facebook account, so just a few days.

Help?

I also need your help, cause most of the time i forget to write, so please just remember me at how much fun it is to write, cause i really love this.

I hope you guys/girls to.

And this is also a blog voor boys!!!!

Much of loves, and sweet greetzz.

Bye xx Me